How we work
A clear path through something that feels anything but clear
Here’s exactly what happens when you work with us — what to expect at each step, how long things usually take and how we keep you in the loop.
The four steps
From first call to moving forward
01
Free consultation
Usually within 2–3 business days of your call
We start by listening. In a free, confidential 30-minute meeting — in person, by phone or by video — you tell us what’s happening and we explain where you stand, your realistic options and what the next few weeks could look like. We’ll check for conflicts first, so you can speak freely.
02
Strategy
Usually 1–2 weeks
If you decide to work with us, we agree on goals, map out the likely path and give you a written cost estimate. We gather the documents that matter, including financial disclosure, and make sure any urgent issues — like a temporary parenting schedule or support — are dealt with first.
03
Negotiation or resolution
Weeks to months, depending on how much is agreed
Most families resolve things through negotiation, mediation or collaborative law. We prepare carefully, advise you at every step and push for a fair, durable agreement. If court becomes necessary, we’ll explain why, what it involves and what it will cost before anything is filed.
04
Moving forward
Ongoing, whenever you need us
We finalize your separation agreement or court order, explain what it means day to day and help with practical follow-through: pensions, property transfers, support enforcement and the divorce itself. Life changes, and we’re here if your arrangements need updating.
What to expect
Timelines, communication and court — honestly
How long it takes
An uncontested divorce often takes about 4–6 months once filed. A negotiated separation agreement may take a few weeks to a few months. Contested court cases can take a year or more. We’ll give you a realistic range for your situation — and update it as things change.
How we communicate
You’ll have your lawyer’s direct line and email. We reply to every message within one business day, send a short summary after every important step and never let weeks go by without an update.
Do I have to go to court?
Usually not. Most of our clients resolve everything through negotiation or mediation. Court is sometimes necessary — for example, when safety is at risk or the other person won’t engage — and we’ll prepare you fully if it is.
Before your first meeting
What to bring to your first meeting
Don’t worry if you can’t find everything — bring what you have. We’ll tell you what else is needed later.
Photo ID
Any court papers or letters from a lawyer you’ve received
Your marriage certificate (and any marriage contract or cohabitation agreement)
Your most recent tax return and notice of assessment, and recent pay stubs
A rough list of what you own and owe — home, accounts, pensions, debts
Your children’s ages, schools and current schedule
A short list of your questions and what matters most to you